So I call myself a tad superficial and love the normz of the definition behind beautiful as in perfect full brows, with a perfect clear skin type, a perfect toned body sculpt, and just great makeup skills.
However, my definition of beautiful may not be the same as yours & that's fine. You think my definition of beautiful applies to others? Of course not, society makes a huge impact on what the definition of beautiful is through Hollywood & what we currently see in the beauty magazines etc..
Since I'm clearly not a size 0 lady, I altered my definition of beautiful to best match my lifestyle, personality, and of course my body features.
So in my practise, I teach my clients the importance of finding that beauty through what you have an enhancing that to your personalized definition of beautiful. Obviously, it wouldn't be the same as my definition of beautiful neither will it match your best friend's and that's OK. Take in account how you would like to portray your image so it can relate to your style & personality. I find it really interesting when my client's ask me to give them the perfect brows as their pointing at mine. This indicates to me that they are not comfortable w their own brows and wish to have what they don't have and want a wonderful sculpted full brow they see in their Cosmo. Well reality is, most of these clients have sparse brows, or blond/light brows that if you realized I can't make into mine! Therefore, when I tell you it is impossible to invent this nonexistent brow just because you saw it in a magazine. Use this as a lesson, use what you have and make it so that you enhance your brows with a nice light brown powder to define your arch and to fill them in so they may appear a tad fuller. This way your creating this altered version of that so called perfect brow. It may be lighter and less full but it matches your face and don't forget (prob) lighter facial features.
Society has made us want one thing otherwise we subscribe each other to not being as beautiful or the normz of what we 'should' look like. You have to keep in mind that the best stars in our social culture have evolved to being unique and different. Having just blond hair and blue eyes doesn't cut it anymore. When your comfortable in your style/personality you start making your appearance match that and realize that your still just as beautiful as anyone else because you start forgetting the normz and would like to look unique & share that radiance. I think it is really important to embrace what you have and make that your definition of beautiful. Even though you have more curves than other girls, or your hair isn't as naturally voluminous like others, Take what your mama gave yuh and rock it to the best as you can.
Confidence is also key to your happiness with your beauty. Even though others may not like your beauty or you can't relate to the rest of the population has no means that your not beautiful. As we know, superstars like Gaga had thousands of people hating on her meat dress because its frankly weird (especially those vegetarians) however that didn't stop her in wearing the dress being confident that she is beautiful. Or when Rihanna wore nothing but a shear lace of Swarovski Crystal dress showing her whole naked body, she ended winning a fashion award. Like hello? You think they match the normz of beauty? Nope, but their confidence has lead to them believing that their beauty is illustrated uniquely through their personal styles.
Meghan Taylor's 'All About That Bass' Video is about accepting them Fem Curves.
Its just so important to understand that we are now in the 21st century where labels, magazine, movies or Hollywood shouldn't influence our own definition of beauty. So think twice when your sad at night thinking over your so called flaws and make them a strength instead of a flaw. That way you will shed light on what your beauty is & will then result in happiness. That is how I am living and you don't see me complaining about beauty, right?
So give that a thought and in the meanwhile come see me for your beauty needs and we can help enhance those features of yours and we can work together to discovering your true individualized beauty with natural aesthetics.
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XOXO-Emm